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英语美文让自己成为有魅力的人
We can't articulate it,but we know a charming person when we seeone. It's that person at the party who seems to know everybody. He works thecrowd with such ease and has a positive aura about him, and everybody justseems drawn to him like steel to a magnet. He leaves people thinking “What a great guy!” and seems to have it all together.
虽无法言传，但我们能一眼看出魅力十足的人：他在聚会上似乎万人熟;他在人群中游刃有余，顶着光环，众人像铁之于磁石那样地被他吸引;他让人们觉得“多棒的家伙!”;似乎他拥有这一切特质。
I would be a fool if I wrote an article on how to be charming if Iwasn't charming to begin with. I don't mean to say I'm the most charming man onthe face of the earth, but I do have my moments. I've reflected back on thosemoments, studied other charismatic people, read books on the subject, and askedother charismatic people to share their insights on this elusive trait. Youknow what I learned? Charisma is not genetic. It can be learned. On to the 8tips.
要是我没有魅力却写一篇关于如何变得富有魅力的文章，这岂不荒唐!我并不是说我是世界上最有魅力的男人，但我确有魅力四射的时候。我回味那些时刻，研究其他富有魅力的人，读这方面的书籍，向其他拥有魅力的人请教。你知道我学到了什么吗?魅力不是天生的，而是可以学会的。这里有八个窍门。
1. Get your own life in order first.
先将生活纳入正规
When everything is going right in your life, the world is youroyster. You're in the zone, you're on top of the world, you feel invincible,like everything has fallen into place just for you. You don't have a singleworry in the world and you feel like singing and dancing in the rain. With thiskind of mental state, it's a double edged sword. It can lead you to become themost charismatic person in the world, or the most obnoxious and boastful personin the world (more on how to not be the latter later onin this article)。
如果你的生活事事如意，你就可以随心所欲、尽得其乐。你得其所哉，你站在世界之巅，你无可匹敌，仿佛所有花儿都为你开放。在世间你没有一丝烦恼，你想要在雨中纵歌起舞。这种境界是把双刃剑，它能使你成为世上最有魅力的人，也能把你变成人间最无聊自负的人(后文将着重探讨如何避免这第二种情形)
You cannot fake charisma if you have problems going on in your life,whether it's trouble paying the bills, family issues, relationship problems,etc. That stuff will weigh you down.
如果你的生活存在问题，你就无法装出拥有魅力的样子——无论你是无法付账，还是家庭琐事，或是关系问题等等，这些都会压得你挺不起腰。
Get your life in order. Pay the bills, save some money in the bank,forgive other people, don't hold grudges, be courteous to all, resolve anyissues you have with people, have a passion in life, have a dream you'reworking on, eat right, exercise, etc. You will find that getting your acttogether will make it extremely easy for you to be charismatic, because thenyou can do the other half of what charismatic people do, and that is focus onthe other person.
让你生活走向正轨。付清账单、把钱存进银行、原谅他人、勿怀嫉妒、对所有人都彬彬有礼、解决掉人际关系中的所有问题、拥有生活的激情、拥有梦想并去追求、合理饮食、锻炼体魄等等。你会发现当你身体力行这些之后，拥有魅力真是小菜一碟，因为接下来你能去做其他有魅力的人所做的另一半事情——那就是关注他人。
2. Exercise
运动
Exercise before attending any event or gathering (and please shower afterwards :) )。 It'llgive you the energy you need to emanate your glowing charm throughout the room.It'll get you in the right mindset of a being a happy positive person becauseof the endorphins circulating in your body. It'll give you that confidence tostart socializing. You'll be on your game. Everything will flow just rightbecause you feel like a million bucks.
参加任何活动或聚会前，先运动一下(然后请洗下澡：))。这会赐予你所需的能量，让你魅力四射。这也将让你处于快乐积极的精神状态中，因为内啡肽正在你的体内徘徊。这还会给你自信去开始社交活动。你将会发挥良好，诸事顺利，因为你感觉你像个大款。
3. Wear the clothes
着装
You know what clothes I'm talking about. Everybody's got an outfitthat makes them feel like a million bucks. We all know that clothes make youfeel good. If you feel good, it'll be really easy to make others feel good. Andthe less worried you are about your appearance, the more you can focus on theother person. The more content you are with yourself (akaself confident)， the more easier it will be to turn onthe charm.
你知道我要说的是什么样的衣服。人人都拥有一套服装，穿上去觉得自己就像大款。我们都知衣饰能让你自我感觉良好。如果你自我感觉良好，那就容易让他人感觉良好。而且你对自己外形的担忧越少，就越能把注意力放在别人身上。你对你自己越满意(亦称自信)，就越容易施展魅力。
4. Pre-socialize
预交际
I don't know why it is, but if I have socialized prior to attendinga gathering or event, I find it way easier to turn on the charm. What I mean bypre-socializing is just striking up conversations with any person you meet onthe way to the event; the store clerk, the people on the elevator, the securityguard, etc. Just some light conversation. Nothing heavy. How are you? Busy daytoday eh? I like your jacket. Do you mind me asking where you got it? I thinkpre-socializing gets you into the groove of easily being able to talk to anyperson, one of the key skills in becoming charming.
我不知道为什么要这样，但如果我在参加聚会或活动之前先交际一下，我就能更容易地找到办法来施展魅力。我说预交际的意思就是在你去参加活动的途中先随便找个什么人交谈一下，如店员、电梯里的人、保安等等。就只是一些轻松的对话。不要是沉重话题。你怎么样?今天很忙，是吗?我喜欢你的外套。可以问一下你在哪儿买的吗?我认为预交际让你处于一种可以和任何人交谈的最佳状态，这是展现魅力的不二法门之一。
When you get to the event
当你到达某次活动时
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